Womanhood & Manhood – The way it was meant to be:
Welcome to discussions on human relationships and sexuality where we provide answers to the old question, is there a perfect relationship and how can we arrive there?
The perfect relationship where everyone is “always completely happy” is perhaps an impossible dream. Like the seasons and weather, every individual has their ups and downs which effects relationships and sexual experiences as throughout history, our relationships and sexuality have been controlled, moderated, accepted or rejected by others. In many countries the “love” relationship is idealized and the young can’t wait to fall in love even though falling means loosing oneself.
Then there is marriage, a relationship that serves the needs of government as much as it serves the needs of communities and raising children. Yet the marriage of love is very unstable as we see by the rising divorce rate while the arranged marriage is often more successful or longer lasting.
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If we look back through history, it’s accepted that in the hunter-gatherer tribes, men and women were more equal than the ideal many of us seek today. With the development of agriculture and larger societies, women became more subservient through into the present day where women are still fighting for equity in many arenas of life.
Another important factor is that along with chimpanzees, bonobos and some other monkeys, we have sex not only for reproduction like most other mammals, we have sex for recreation and pleasure. Sex is a tool for social bonding and pleasure. In fact for many, sex is the highest pleasure experience in life and its healthy as the high of an orgasm releases stress by releasing ‘feel good’ chemicals that lifts our spirit and facilitates trust and communication between individuals.
What Effects our Relationships?
The short answer is “everything”. Just think, how we are in this moment is a result of every though, feeling and experience throughout our life. From the foods we eat, the people we associate with, the books we read, the movies we view, the place we live, our employment and interests all combine to effect us, and then, we have politics… Life is very political and this is an area when people seek power and control over others, and politics exist within families, communities as well as corporations, churches, states and countries. Politics can limit individuals rights or provide freedom to explore. Sex at Dawn
Today, many of us have the freedom to explore the many different ways of relating and having sex, and typically we find that key issues are in creating the freedom to explore and learn – finding the words to better communicate so that we build intimacy and bridge the gaps in communication to enhance our relationships and sex lives.
Thinkers and poets, community leaders, ministers and therapists including John Gray, Dr. Ruth and Oprah all inspire reflection and encourage exploration. In most large urban centres men and women are exploring multiple relationships, or brief relationships with many sex partners out of curiosity or even for income.
In these pages we are talking about and learning to improve what we have been doing since humanity began, that is relating to each other and having sex.
Women and men across the world have struggled to find answers to better relationships and greater sexual satisfaction and For Women, we review products that help with arousal and enhance your orgasm, discuss men – finding Mr Right – how to get along with them, please them and get your own satisfaction… Read about breast care and enlargement options, or maybe learn something new about your vagina or find out if are you attracted to other women?
Men can learn how to better please their women by learning how to be a better lover, understanding and improving penis function, size, overcoming erectile dysfunction and increasing pleasure as well as how to actually get the confidence to talk to women and make successful dates.
Women ideas to help improve your sex life with tips on oral sex, keeping your periods regular, birth control and more..
The Price of Looking Good – Body Augmentation Documentary.
For Men and Women, as intercourse becomes more enjoyable, there are many ways to explore love making. You may have heard of the “Karma Sutra” an ancient book in which many of the positions described require extreme physical strength and dexterity, fortunately there are alternatives. Then there is a revival of the concept of compersion; the opposite of jealousy used to describe when a person experiences positive feelings when their lover is enjoying another relationship which is why many men are happy for their spouse to indulge in other intimate relationships.
Fidelity, the pros and cons of of multiple partners, marriage, tips for a higher libido.
We review products to improve your love life and bedroom confidence.
If you are a person engaged in understanding the human condition and your own sexuality, you are welcome to become a member and share your experiences.