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Here we have the opinions of two British women who discuss men and penis size.
Louisa,
27, lives in Notting Hill and is a
successful Accountant and is single. Her passion is
wine and men (in that order mates!-Ed) and has had
over thirty partners.
'Sex is an
extremely important part of my life. I find my job
very stressful, the hours are very long and sex for me is
a great release of tension and stress. I don't
have time for a relationship. At work I am in a high
position of power, therefore I find it a great turn
on to be taken charge of by a man who is really
confident about himself and his body. Unfortunately
many men don't possess this kind of confidence or the
right size package.
Penis size is actually fairly
important to me, which I suppose is quite sad.
Recently I slept with a man called Tom* who was
lovely, good looking etc etc but had the smallest
penis I've ever seen. I laughed when I saw it, I just
couldn't help myself. When it was all over I ended
going into the bathroom and satisfying myself. Not the
ideal situation. However, I have had some successes
with more average men, to a degree 'it is what you do
with it'. On one occasion I met a man at a business
conference-later that night the orgasm was incredibly
intense.
I suppose it makes me sound
quite shallow, but in my mind there is no point in
having crap sex, I can quite happily satisfy myself
if need be. In my experience men who are
larger do make better lovers. They possess a higher
level of confidence, which alone is much more of a
turn on. A partner who is confident within themselves
and their body is more likely to know what he wants
and be able to satisfy me.
Length is not the most
important factor for me, girth is. I'll never forget
Rob* who had at least a 8 inch penis, but it was the
thinnest, weakest looking thing I'd ever seen-this
was reflected in the short performance. A good large
girth usually means a stronger, more flexible penis.
This is reflected in the length and control a
man displays during sex leading to greater
satisfaction. Up to a point it is what you do
with it, but if you do it with a large penis the
results for me are greater and leave a lasting
impression.'
Helen, 31,
(also lives in Notting Hill)
She is a
successful Barrister and lives with her boyfriend of
7 years. She talks about how their
relationship has been affected by sex…..
'Paul* and I have been together for what seems like
ever. We're very happy together, but I don't think
we will get married, the idea just doesn't appeal to
us, we're happy as we are. Not everything has
all ways been so smooth though, it took along time
for our sex life to be up to standard!
When we first got together it
became apparent fairly quickly that I had a much
greater sex drive than Paul, sometimes he simply
wasn't interested. This began to affect the
rest of our relationship, I began to doubt myself,
his love and our trust.
Paul simply wasn't interested
and when he was, he lacked something.
We both decided that something
must be done or our relationship would suffer
further. We talked at great length about what the
problem was Paul felt he wasn't confident enough or
big enough. I agreed he wasn't confident enough, but
he was big enough and at 6.5 inches he was certainly
ample.
Paul* decided to take matters
into his own hands (does she realise what's she's
just said!) he declared that we couldn't have sex
for a 4 week period. In this time he began
doing exercises to strengthen his penis-which in turn
would give him more confidence.
At first, I do admit I had my
doubts, it sounded almost sleazy and dodgy. But, my
relationship was on the line here I was willing to
try anything to prevent losing the man that I loved.
After the 4-week period, we resumed sexual
activity. The change in Paul* was amazing, his
penis was defiantly thicker and stronger looking.
This change was reflected in his confidence level and
his performance- we took the plunge and have never
looked back.
Our sex life is now fantastic.
I still don't know what exercises Paul* does, I don't
want to, all I know is that they have changed our
relationship. I never though that sex could have such
a bearing on your life and relationships. I'm just
glad we got it sorted before it was too late.'
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