My First Time Video

Most boys will say & do almost anything to have sex.
my problem really is that i feel like my boyfriend is only nice to me when he wants some. he nice all the time but he is extremely nice when he wants some.
Another thing is before we started having sex he would buy me things just about everyday, now he says that he has no money.
my parents dont want to let me go out with him because of this.
if we dont go out we cant have sex, and worries me because i told him once i start im going to want it everyday.
what do i do. should i tell him that he needs to buy me things in order for me to go out.
You must find a balance in your life. Though the desire for pleasure, and release is strong, holding back and doing other stuff you enjoy together will help balance your relationship. You need to know how much you like this boy and how much he likes you as opposed to just fucking you.
Take your time, be clear in your heart and mind, then if you want this boy and sex with him, then you both have to make it happen and win over and gain the support both yours and his parents and becoming responsible adults within your community

I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend.  He told me that he took his penis out of my vagina when he felt that he was going to ejaculate. When he took it out, there was some very white stuff on it. I want to know if girls have that white stuff inside them or if it was sperm for sure?
yes some girls produce white stuff, and so do boys as precum, which may also contain some sperm 
what are the chances of getting pregnant if the white stuff was really sperm?
Good, there is no way to tell until after your next period - save yourself the angst that is so worrying and make sure he wears a condom. carry some yourself.  Men are so driven to reproduce, they will sometimes lie to cum/impregnate you - then be shocked at the consequences, though boys are becoming more responsible as sex education improves.

I started having sex since 12yrs old with a 45yrs old man. He told me he would pay me $100 for it. Another $100 if I blow him. Out of curiosity, I did it. He was big and huge(10inch x 3inch). I screamed and bled for the 1st time but got addicted to it after a few tries. After 4 yrs, I'm still doing it with him but for a higher price. He is still so great!!

when me and my boyfriend have sex my vagina always feels sore after is there any products i can use to take away the discomfort
You need to find the reason - is he big and the discomfort due to his size? Do you get wet enough? Do you have an std? Really you have to find the cause and then a solution.

My first time was in the back of a VW Van. It hurt and I bled quite a bit.It almost ruined my favorite pair of jeans (they came clean after a few washings). But I was still curious...  I love sex now.
Let the guy know to be gentle and when it hurts.  He needs to control himself.  There are positions that are more comfortable, try a few.

were ready to have sex and then he said he starts thinking about it , and he doent wana be bad for me, and stuff, then it just goes down, then he worries and he just cant get it up, and now everytime we do stuff he thinks about if it will happen or not, so he worries and it happens again,he said he is turned on and everything, but it just wont happen, like its soo frusturating, whats wroung with him and what can he do?
This is called performance anxiety, he will get over it as long as you don't make it an issue of it.

my first time was last summer when i was 13. i went by my self to montana to visit a friend that was stayign there for a month with her grandmother and grandfather. well the first day there i met her 19 year old cousin. i thought he was super hot and was trying to flirt with him and asked if he would buy my friend and i some beer. he bought us beer and i got so wasted and my friend and i got started on this big fight on who we thought was hot and if we would do stuff with them. well i said that her cousin was hot and i wanted to do it with him. he said he was thinking of me all day and wanted to do it with me too. so we ended up doing it on his grandma's bed (BIG EWW). i dont really remember to much about it, only enough haha. on my 2 week visit i ended up have sex with him 5 times. the second time he said he loved me and he was not joking......i wasnt sure if i should believe him or not. do you think he did like me or was just saying that?? and why do i miss him so much??
Hi, most any boy will feel he loves you if you have sex with him. Sure he really likes you because of the sex and a nice time together, but he may be falling in love with you. Although there is no user manual to work this out, you both have to decide if this is just sexual fun, or are you going to develop a loving long term relationship. Of course, sex and intimacy creates it's own desire for more - hence you miss him, but also you may be falling a litle in love and you have to work this out.

I had sex last night for the 1st time and it didnt bleed but then this morning it was bleeding a little and it is off and on, what is this?
Normal bleeding after tearing the hymen.  If it persists or becomes heavy, see a doctor

I just finished my cycle yesturday and today I had sex for the first time,I am bleeding a lot I dont know how much am I supposed to bleed. How much is it normal? Does that have to do with my cycle?
Possibly, if heavy, or it does not stop in the next day, please see your doctor.

I would like to ask what it means if a women bleeds during sex and they have been doing it for over a year. It may have had something to do with just getting over my period but i thought for sure it was completely gone for days 
This can happen occasionally, but if it persists, do see a doctor.

I have been w/ my boyfriend for a while adn I am never able to have an orgasam.
Here I think you really need to listen to your body/feelings and explore
Dont get me wrong, the sex is great. And recently we were having sex and i was riding him then when i got off his penis all this fluid came gushing out. I had no idea what this was b/c that has never happened before. Do you know what could have caused that fluid?
When sex is great,  the vagina releases fluids and it can be a lot.

I recently tried to have sex with my boyfriend and it hurt too much an i had to quit... after this i started bleeding and my period was last week... it is bleeding very little but it is still bleeding. What should i do and is it normal and how long with the bleeding last.
This is not normal and there are many possibilities, If it does not stop in the next day so so, please see your doctor.

Abstinence is the best way to insure not getting hurt, not getting pregnant and not getting STD's.
Abstinence means you miss part of life..

I loved sex when I was 14. I had sex with 2 different guys in a period of 3 months only because I thought it was cool. I found out real quick that it wasnt and got a bad reputation my first year in high school. The last time I ever had sex was Jan.1 2000 of my freshman year. I am now waiting till marriage because I know I would go psyco on the next guy I had sex with and I want to truly be able to love someone before I give them something that they could so easily take advantage of.  I also think that waiting till marriage will keep me from getting hurt from cheating partners and I know that there is some guy who will wait with me to have sex till marriage and when I find him he will be a keeper. I also made this decision because I love God and I know that if I do what is right it will only be able to help me, not hurt me.

My first time i was 14. His parents had left to go to the store and wouldnt be back for another half hour. I wanted to have sex with him so we decided to go ahead. We didnt have foreplay we just decided to try it. He wasn't a virgin it was his second time at it. He had trouble getting it in because i was so tight. Finally he pushed alittle harder and it went in like an inch. I felt alot of sharp pain and he pushed just a little farther in. I couldn't take it so i made him stop and he imediatly pulled out and help me take care of the blood that started. He was very caring and i am still with him. yes we have had sucsessful sex and i am very happy. Bianca

My first time was on october of 2003. My boyfriend and i had already planned it we talked about it and everything. this was last year i was still 15. The first time we had sex i felt kind of embarrased because he kept kissing me all over and i just wasn't use to it. is that ok when it's the first time??
yes 1st time at anything can be strange

I have had sex with him for about 3 times already he moved away but i still he him on some days. See what happens is that everytime i think about him i get the sensation of wanting him. i just remember the last time we did it and it kind of gets me worked up and i miss him more... is this a sign of me wanting to have sex badly???
Possibly, as sex and intimacy are important for health and wellbeing desire is normal, so the challenge is to make this a part of your life and you will know when it creates happiness without pain, you will have a good balance.

My problem really is that i feel like my boyfriend is only nice to me when he wants some. he nice all the time but he is extremely nice when he wants some. A common phenomenon and works both ways

My first time The day before i first had sex i had him finger me, it hurt, it felt like a taring and burning the day we did have sex he was a virgin too so it was pretty confusing but we had both watched porn so we kind of knew how to do it, he was on top of course he was about nine inches long and was pretty thick so it hurt even more then the fingering but after a few trys we couldn't get enough of each other we were having sex three to five times a day it was great!  Joann

Judy says: I just tell them to wait until I open up. My vagina is small to begin with so average sized men need to get me ready first.

Yoga for sex - simply being fully conscious or aware of your activity, making the effort to support and deepen the experience

Dora says: Once you get the penis inside, get on top of him to show him your power! Let him feel what it's like to be humped. Say that you will only continue sex with him if he agknowledges you as the dominate sex. Careful you don't scare him away

Nat says: Well... the only thing I have learned is that Men are whiny when it comes to sex. If you tell them they aren't doing well and ask them to do something different they get all upity. As for a first time... couldn't help you there. My first time almost made me take a vow of chastity it was so bad. and I am a nymph - = laughs = -

Rachel says: I had sex in different places like in public. Good for you Rachel,

Cassie says: Getting the penis inside isnt really all that hard.(expecilly if your man's hade sex once or twice.) Me, I was a virgin when I was with him the first time. Some advise to some of those virgins use some time of lubrication. It hurt so bad,my best-friend tried to commit suicide at the age of 12. were both 14 now both of us are non-virgins. she told me the first time she had sex that it hurts more to have sex the first time then to cut her rist. (NOT ADDVISING YOU DO IT!!) my first time was 7 days after my 14 birthday. my first love had turned 18 one month before.He is 7 inches long and 2 inches wide. and it hurt SO BAD!! I started to cry, and he wouldnt get off me. (until I punched him,I dint recomened that either.)The next day we had sex and it hurt a little but not nearly as bad. I dont recommed you go and have sex because very, very few couples stay together.Tm just lucky i guess. If you chose to have sex , you may hear this from adults alot and you may think that thy dont know anything but they know more then you think so give them some credit. They have been there to. USE A CONDOM!!!

Maria says: some penis are curved

Tammy says: Make sure he takes it slow. You will feel some pressure - maybe a little discomfort - but don't worry... You'll never feel that again.

Annon says: I must make sure my husband understands I want him so he doesn't rush me. My vagina is very tiny so he always needs to wait until I open up.

Jenna says: I tried with a boy name nick, n it hurt to much n i didnt trust nick, so i pulled out and left...

Kim says: I encourage women to explore their own sexuality with masturbation. I love to mastubate with a vibrator and find it a very freeing experience.

Debbie says: I advise anyone to enjoy sex but not to give up thier personal power.

Emma says: men just want sex these days just to fill there ego they are not there for the women not romantic

Sara says: Boy, do I have alot! I am 27, and have been having sex for 12 years now ( since I was 15). I had numerous sexual partners before I was married, but since being married 3 years ago, only an occasional kiss or grope from another person besides my spouse. ( Mostly other women.) I still remember my first time vividly, and it did hurt. A lot. But most of that was due to being somewhat scared ( not of the boy, but what would happen), and the fact that I wasn't completely turned on. With the next boyfriend, I learned that I needed LOTS of foreplay ( kissing, rubbing, grinding, sex talk) before I was wet enough for penetration and good sex. Skip past many years and many sex partners, and the biggest thing I have learned is that, though I love sex, I have to feel a special connection to someone before I sleep with them; random sex with strangers, or "friends", while exciting and fun, does not lead me to a satisfactory sexual encounter. I need a close, exclusive bond with someone before I can totally let go, get into the groove, and thoroughly enjoy sex.

Brenda thinks: women get love and sex confused too much.

Jade says: girls...bisexuality makes for a happier life.. orgies too!!!

Kimberly says: i am 13 yrs old. i started having sex for almost a yr. On my 1st time, it was with an older guy who used these enlargment pills for he said almost 2 yrs. i believed him cause he was real close to 9"long. it took him almost an hr and a half to put it all inside me. He actually hade to squeeze baby oil inside my vagina so it would slide in better. when it was all the way in, i moved on top and layed down on top of him. it felt so good i made him keep it all the way inside me until the next morning. i kept on having these orgasm throughout the night that would last almost 5 min

Jill says: Penis size is not the most important factor, but can really enhance a woman's sexual experience. Men who are well endowed seem more confident and feeling filled is wonderful. Lastly, wearing high heels or boots really gives me confidence and power over what seems more and more to me as a weaker sex (men)

Kim says: My first time really didn't hurt that much at all.I barely even bled.I love it when it first goes in.That drive's me crazy!

Jenny says: I always have a dildo in me at all times. That gets you stretched for any size penis. Bigger is better!

Tanya says: I once took a 12" penis in my butt! Now that took alot of lube!

Jean says: Having sex is showing your confidence in yourself and your body as much as it is a discovery of your partner's openness to you.

Christina says: try the doggy style position in a moving car while you steer!

Rhonda says: favorite sex position is me standing by bed and facing headboard.one leg on bed and my man doing me from behind...hard..

Lisa says: I feel that a man is less attracted after you have had children, they seem to accuse you of being loose .. that has hurt my self esteem, being in my mid thirty,s and having had 4 children.

Gina says: my sexual insights: im good looking but the main turn on is the psychology and character of the man

Nono says: I have found that straight men , if you can get them past the idea of being scared, love to have the area between thier balls and rectum and even thier rectum licked and sucked, it'll have em' crawlin' all over the bed, trust me.

Km says: Having children takes away the attn. u used to pay to ur man and u don't have much choice or I didn't...don't buy into the the crap about women have a resurgence of libido around 35, it's exactly that....if it hurts don't do it...always been the shower massager....

Judy says: I just tell them to wait until I open up. My vagina is small to begin with so average sized men need to get me ready first.

Liz says: oral sex RAWKS just go wild, have fun, and don't worry about little things like stretch marks and stuff

Michelle says: be open try anything

Gloria says: I personally did not lose interest in sex after having my children, but it is very difficult to find the time since both my children are under the age of 3. But my advice to myself and others is "Don't lose hope your children will not be little forever, and during the times you do have sex make it worth the wait".

Aarti says: i love masturbating by sleeping on my tummy and rubbing my vagina on the bed and fantasising about a handsome hulk

Elizabeth says: definately fit into the category of not interested post-child...is starting to become a real issue in our marriage...any suggestions!

Maria says: My husband is about 5 and a half. Not big enough for me to have an orgasm, (vaginal). My husband decided to get me a lover with a largeer penis and it has been incredible. I don't really like dildos. There's nothing like a really nice penis like my lover has. My husband knows where I am and who I'm with, and it makes him happy to know I'm completely satisfied with the lover he found for me

Hannah says: not being able to get penis inside - lots of foreplay, gradual stretching finger at a time, hurting too much - change position, not enough preparation, losing interest - change of attitude required-think erotically-look at porn-masturbate, favourite ways to masturbate - toys and fingers

Carrie says: Lube, be comfortable, trust your partner, and ALWAYS USE PROTECTION. Hot guy from the bar isn't worth getting HIV for.

Liz says: I entered that I like large penis. My husband is average in size and its fine. I find that I get stronger orgasms with larger penis and that their stamina is better.

Melanie says: The best way to have sex and make love is in a very relaxed , warm environment.......I always set the mood ...I enjoy being sensual around my man and always try to satisfy him..he in turn always satisfies me orally as well as sex position wise....we are an older than average couple and have learned to take our time for great lovemaking......I've had 4 chikdren and am at my sexual peak .......we include a lot of foreplay as well as cuddling I tend to be the aggressor in bed which is perfectly fine with him. We are always open to trying new thing and keep an open line of communication.....being openminded and patient are the two most important factors when being that intimate with

Jayne says: my favourite way to masturbate is with my partner watching and or licking me,  or him just watching.

Tara says: find someone who can please you both mentally and sexually and you will be happy

Diana says: since I'm a lesbian my sexual insights and experiences would have to do with lesbian experiences. I have had safer sex chats in my site and have found women to be concerned that they are "strange" if they do or don't like dildos. Also, many lesbians still believe that they will not get STD's or have any slight possibility of acquiring HIV. Many lesbians seem to have a extremely hard time telling their lover of things that please them sexually. So, taking in account these mentioned subjects and many more I'm sure I don't have time to discuss in this format, I would like to explain to lesbians that the need for STD/HIV information is as important to them as it is for all the rest of the population.

Jesse says: I found after having a baby I didn't want to have sex at all.I had no desires and was depressed because I thought if I was sexless forever I would never find someone. But I just made the effort and tried to keep it up, I used porn a bit and it gradually came back. I think about sex a lot now but I still have a few problems getting wet. I find that lubricants are kinda useless because it doesn't make your vadge dilate so sex can still be a bit uncomfortable.

Terri says: first time with a woman was great, first time with a man I was split open. my first sexual encounter was in a school playground and she was older and on her period. I am equally attracted to both sexes but have been faithfull for 18 yrs. I was proposed to by my best friend when I was 27 condoms and KY are essential relationship is great but the sex has always been one sided

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