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About Men > Giving Head
Men were asked; How Does Your Woman Please You at Giving Head?
2.2% of say She gives it great and swallows
33.4% say generally good
32.7% say ok, but could be better
18.6% say she needs lessons
12% say I go elsewhere for oral sex
Full Survey Results
How do you go
about sucking his cock? Do you want to? Of course if
he indulges you with his mouth & tongue to help
you to more wet & wanting.. or even an orgasm or
3... you must do the same for him.
The penis is a
remarkable piece of anatomy, the tip that can look
like Darth Vada's helmet (star wars) is very, very
sensitive, in fact as sensitive as your clitoris. So
you do have to avoid using your teeth & from the
men I have talked to, teeth can be extremely
painful.. So just use your lips, tongue and some good
suction.
As I find, the
shaft is sensitive as is the skin around the scrotum
similar to the feeling you get from the skin around
your vagina & the inner thighs & lower belly
in about the same way as you or me are sensitive. You
may notice the difference in massaging the shaft,
& that many men find that when you smoothly
massage the firmness under the skin, where different
pressures give different pleasures. I find that all
like to be touched in different ways and it is a
matter of learning. A good sensual massage lesson can
help here. More on cocks.
Sucking cock is
easier when it is freshly cleaned. What I like to do
sometimes is start with my hands and really explore,
feeling the details of the shape & texture, the
little ridges & valleys & the movement of the
foreskin while kissing down his belly. Then licking
and kissing all around the shaft & balls, teasing
a bit. Then licking to wet the tip & basically
treating it like a popsicle being careful to keep
teeth out of the way. It helps to behave like a
"tart", you know the saint with the family
and the whore in the bedroom.
Guys with little
dicks are easiest & you can take the whole thing
in your mouth, whereas bigun's can make you gag till
used to it. I have the attitude that I am preparing
his cock to satisfy me, so really get into it as it
is something very special in the same way I attend to
other special things in life.
If you take him
all the way, do you swallow? It is just protein..
like oysters, some say also fattening (I think for it
to fatten, you would need to swallow at least 20 x a
day). If taste or smell is a problem (make sure there
are no STD's present), a little wine or coffee in
your mouth will cover it & with your spit, any
taste is gone in a minute or so.
Benefits of
sucking cock:
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He will often last longer
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Better sex for you
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He will be more faithful
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He will appreciate you more (unless he is a pig)
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Adds variety to sex.
More on teeth -
well you can use them, but if a guy wants pain, ok he
is probably into b&d & masochism. So if you
bite to hard, it can really hurt & take his
breath away so much so that he cannot speak &
that expression on his face is agony..... I trust
unlikely, but it often is that you are almost there
doing some things nice, but still cause discomfort,
& as uncomfortable as it may feel for him, he
often just cannot tell you be it from the overwhelm
that finally a blow job is really on now or that now
he's got it, and now matter how it feels he will
enjoy it anyhow, or he appreciates you that much,
that he will enjoy of love & you will not usually
stay there long.
Some tips:
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Kneel between his legs, hold his penis in
your hand and look him in the eye as though you were
about to suck the nectar out of him, and keeping you
eye contact go down on him and experiment.
- licking up and down the shaft
- licking/sucking his balls
- just taking the tip into your mouth & play sucking with your
lips
- licking & running the tip of your tongue around the edge of the
penis head
- taking it more into your mouth sucking & taking it in and out &
exploring what you can do if you focus
- it can take practice to take in his full length & it helps to
relax your throat
- for many men a couple of minutes before intercourse can help him
stay harder longer
- If you bring him off, do you swallow? consider the psychology
here - swallowing signifies total acceptance of him, or the essence
of his manhood
- Not swallowing may sometimes be taken as a partial rejection
- For sex workers swallowing is a mark of respect but is only
given to some clients
- Read Jessica's guide to giving head
- More on cocks
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