I am 15 and i am going
through a really hard time right now. i had just had
2 deal with police and i am grounded for a month. I
miss my bf and i am not allowed 2 c him. i dont know
whether i should run away or do ne thing else. i am
in so much pain please help me with advice.
Ok,
when you have to deal with the police and upset
parents, you are living to far over the edge of
whatever it is that your parents and the community
around you can handle. For what ever reason, you are
pushing some parental, moral and social values to far
and they are also in pain.
Are
you clear within your own heart and mind about who
you are, and where you are going in this life?.
Make
peace with your parents, even if you have to accept
their conditions for a bit longer, understand that
parents do their best in respect of who they are and
are not perfect. Look for a way to bring the current
conflict to discussion without blame on either side.
The
cause for the restrictions and pain you are feeling,
is your reaction to you parents concern for your
safety and legal power over you that is supported by
the wider community with all its restrictions,
corruption and confusion. Learning to get what you
want in life without pissing off the world is a part
of passing through adolescence.
I
advise that you take the time out in good grace and
use the time to contemplate the good fortune of
actually being alive and able to feel. To meditate,
to look inside your self, into your own heart and
mind to see more of who you really are. Use some of
the time to look at the planet and it's societies,
read, watch some news, documentaries and a comedy or
2.
Chat
on the phone with your boy friend and discuss these
things and the stuff that you have been doing, like
the reasons why you do what you do, how it makes you
feel. Meaningful conversations will deepen your
relationship, you will both learn and grow with peace
into this beautiful life -
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