Should You Become a Sex Service Provider?

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Women's Sexuality > Escorting.... Payment for Sex

Prostitution is recognized as the worlds oldest profession and exists in every culture. It has been with us throughout history and in some countries escorting and prostitution is legal, but in most countries, sex for money is legal, but prostitution is illegal.

The actual meaning of the word "prostitute" is to do anything against ones personal values. So if a person believes that providing Sex For Money (SFM) is ok, by doing it, it is not prostitution. Prostitution only occurs if a person does an action against their own personal principals, and the public use of the word prostitution to mean providing Sex For Money is incorrect, so here we are discussing the work of providing sex for money and not prostitution.

History:

Looking back in history, (2000-5000 years ago), the church employed women and men to provide sexual services to ease the heart ache and give physical comfort while the priests consoled the mind. Today the church is one of the strongest opponents of women charging for sex and yet in every religious family, the wife expects payment in return for providing services to her husband.

Many women have a huge capacity for sex especially when it is enjoyable. Today in 2004, the modern woman providing SFM, has many reasons for doing so. In some countries, as throughout history, women have provided sex for food, shelter, pleasure and profit. Others provide SFM because they enjoy it, or because they can see it heals suffering and is a service to those who come to them.

Most SFM providers are women, and most customers are men. If you are a women who knows men, intimacy and sex relaxes them, they become more human and easier to be with. The modern marriage is often stressful and can be violent, and one of the best ways to relieve the pressure is to relax, experience intimacy and sex.

During wars, commanders often provided comfort women for soldiers to ease their pain with sex so they would feel more "man" and perform better in action.

Providing SFM has always existed, and human society cannot exist without it in some form, as it provides a release of tension and helps to restore the human condition.

What is money for sex?
Wives do it, girlfriends do it and professionals do it. Money for sex is to provide sex as reward for money, behaviour or service.

If a guy takes you out, is nice, buys dinner and a show, you feel appreciative and let him have sex with you. This is sex for money.

In many relationships women only provide sex if their man rewards them. This is also sex for money and further more, if you reward your husband with sex, we think this will drive him to play around and use other sex providers. Get real!

Who can or should provide sex for money?
If you need money, cannot get work, like men, are friendly, compassionate and enjoy sex, SFM may be the job for you.

If you love sex and just cannot get enough, then escorting or SFM will be a passport to pleasure and an interesting lifestyle.

If you have an interest in the human condition and human sexuality, or want to experience the outer limits of pleasure, SFM can be a fantastic occupation.

What is required in providing SFM ?

You must enjoy sex
know how to be safe, to be disciplined and use condoms.
To be able to listen, give a cuddle and kind words, many customers often want someone to talk to.
To interact and work with the customer to give them the experience they want, may involve role play and acting.

There are customers who want to please the provider, it can be nice and the ability to act, be a listener and the ability to give counseling is an advantage.
Providing a girlfriend/companionship/SFM service offers the greatest versatility as appointment times are longer and you get to know clients as much as you desire. Sex is less hurried and often more enjoyable.

How to provide sex for money?
You are most likely familiar of the girls who work the streets, waiting on the kerb and getting into customers cars, or doing quick sex in the alleyway. This is a dangerous way of working and every year thousands of these girls disappear of are later found dead.

Working in a bar is almost as dangerous as working the street. Some bar owners encourage SFM providers, as it makes their bar more sexy or even glamorous.

Working in brothel is more popular, the management should provide everything needed to do the work. The negative side is the wages are often lower, there may not be enough customers, the time spent with customers is often short, (15 minutes - 1 hour) and some managers abuse employees.

Many SFM providers network socially, forming girlfriend relationships with a few or many men/women. This gives independence and freedom to have as many paying lovers as wanted. This way of working is safer, as everyone knows everyone and the work can be more varied, in addition to providing sex, such escorts can accompany customers to events, theater, functions, travel etc. and for a girl with intelligence looks and charm, very well paid.

The emerging model is to find customers on the internet. SFM providers by placing an advertisement on a website can describe their services and terms of business with rules for customer behavior and attract customers. Before accepting customers, escorts can collect sufficient information about the customer via email to ensure safety, (ie collect name, phone, email address, ip address and more).

Values:
Its a job, it pays the bills and provides an interesting lifestyle, you get to be your own boss and its and opportunity to develop your prowess as a lover and even power over men.

Dangers:
Every industry has its dangers. For those who live in the gettos, pimps, criminals, drug dealers are an ever present risk. Middle class women find the work much safer, they can work from home, screen clients and charge much more than the girl on the street and street work is the last resort for the desperate and working in a brothel may be safer although some brothel owners may be as dangerous. Always talk to the women working there before taking a position.

How to use the internet
Many amateur SFM providers advertise in Adult Friend Finder which gives anonymity and potential customers have to be paid members to contact them.

Many SFM service providers make or get a website and there are masses of them. For SFM providers who have a good social network and a business card, a website will support their business and help to attract new customers. But unless people know about their site, it will not be seen and a lot of work, time and money has to go into marketing the site.

The most successful way of using the internet is to place advertisements on some of the many escort directories.

Some are free to list on, but potential customers have to be paid members of the site to view or reply to advertisements. Others are free to list on, but are badly managed and don't attract many visitors so there is little value. A site we like is www.escort-enz.com where advertisers get a webpage with plenty of space to add photos and text while retaining anonymity, the site is suited to amateurs and professionals.

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